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Pregnancy outside the womb, loss of fallopian tubes in a foreign country

Combined with extra-uterine pregnancy, I was 30 years old that year..
In the early days, I had an ectopic pregnancy and one of the fallopian tubes was removed. I was only 22 years old that year. At that time, the doctor also told me that the other side of the fallopian tube was also blocked. It may be an ectopic pregnancy next time. It's also half less than normal, so I listed myself as a physique that is not easy to conceive; I naturally conceived after many years...? (Of course, I have tried all the ways of begging in the past few years. Which temple is very spiritual when I take traditional Chinese medicine to adjust my body, and I have done all the things that should be done, but there is still no news)

When I found out I was pregnant, I was very, very happy. I didn’t expect that I would still be pregnant. It was a gift from the sky for me, but the good times didn’t last long, and the joy of being pregnant didn’t last long. 24H, my husband's title of "father" disappeared in a short period of time. Hemorrhage, embryo shrinkage and deformation, um... miscarriage. Seeing my husband's loss, I kept asking myself if I did something wrong. , Although I am very sad and sad, I told myself that it is fortunate that it is not an ectopic pregnancy... There is still a chance, but I don't know... I have always felt that I still have the discomfort of pregnancy, and then I checked to confirm the ectopic pregnancy....


The chances of an intrauterine pregnancy combined with an extrauterine pregnancy are very, very small! Such unfortunate things happened to me? My husband is a Malaysian. At that time, I was diagnosed with an ectopic pregnancy in Malaysia. I was arguing to go back to Taiwan. The doctor dared not let me take this risk, so I had to compromise and perform surgery abroad. There were Malays and Indians in the hospital. Chinese, but none of the nurses I was taking care of in the waiting room were Chinese, and my husband couldn’t accompany me either. I couldn’t speak the language and I didn’t have any relatives... At the moment, my mind was really blank.

I begged the doctor to help me save the fallopian tube. The doctor said that I would try my best. After the operation, I was still in a confused state. My first sentence was: "Where is the fallopian tube? Is it saved?" Doctor: The crack is too serious to be repaired. , removed.
I've been revolving around in my head
"I can no longer get pregnant naturally..."
"I can no longer get pregnant naturally..."
"I can no longer get pregnant naturally..."
I'm only 30 years old and I'm destined for a test tube...
The test tube is very expensive, I have no money...

 

I was in the hospital for 5 days and I cried for 5 days
My husband never dared to mention what happened that day

 

Now that the facts have been determined, it seems very convenient to not use contraception in the future, so I will focus on my career with my husband, and I will talk about the child's affairs when I make money; I will start the test tube road because of a dream, I dreamed that I was pregnant, how could I have such a dream, I didn’t think about getting pregnant and knew that I wouldn’t get pregnant, I wondered if the time is up and the child is ready to come to me? So I started to consult Dr. Tang. I am very lazy, I just want to be convenient, so I didn't do much comparison and homework in terms of test tubes. I chose Hongqi at first because of its proximity, but the doctor gave me a very good feeling. Kind, the doctor's relationship is also good, so I decided to let the doctor help me on the way of the test tube. During the test tube process, I didn't feel hard for injections and medicines, and I was very normal. I let myself enjoy the process, and my husband also helped me to video. , We record every return visit and every injection. Whether it is successful or not, these are the traces of our efforts. I was not nervous or worried during the whole process. I even forgot that I was doing test tubes many times. Live and dance until you're sure you're pregnant! Planted 2 in 1, and finally decomposed into identical twins.
 

Thank you to the doctors and everyone in the Fertility Center team
The team made me very relaxed and stress-free, and I would like to thank everyone on the team who encouraged me during the process.

 

Finally, I want to encourage the moms who are still on the road of trying to seek children.
"The journey is hard, but you have to learn to enjoy
Relax and feel good is the medicine for a strong body
Don't worry, the problems encountered in the process must have been arranged by God, and you will get unexpected results if you go smoothly.
Don't be too concerned about gains and losses, it's good to be sad for a day or two if you fail
As long as we still breathe, there are infinite possibilities
It will be ours, no matter how destructive it is, it will follow us
If it's not ours, how can we protect him, he will still disappear."

 

This is my mentality at the time. It may be difficult for some moms to do it, but you must believe that God will give you the best arrangement, whether it is a child or not. Come on, mommy, I hope I can share a good pregnancy with you.